You’re paving your way “through the dark” to transformational healing, hopefulness, and “wish granted” energy
Reading format: For whoever most needs to hear it—situation “check-in” and guidance
Themes
Where are you currently at?
Breaking trail—You’re paving the path forward into the unknown and “creating your own trail”.
Heartbreak and moving through pain and sadness surrounding heartbreak. You’ve either walked away from a previous relationship or you’re committed to a decision to walk away and simply need to take action on it. More specifically, you’re either about to initiate the divorce process or you’re in the throes of it now.
If you haven’t yet taken action to leave this relationship, it’s possible that you’re waiting for / hoping the other person will do it so that you don’t have to.
You may be feeling anxious or having sleepless nights, especially if you’re feeling pulled in two different directions right now (e.g., closing out a past chapter as you contemplate moving into a new one).
You might be wishing things were easier and potentially feeling impatient about how long this process will take.
Finding the “glow” of your authenticity in the darkness of the uncertain or unknown path.
What are you walking towards right now? // Where are you going?
Profound and transformational healing, hopefulness, and “wish granted” energy are in your future.
If you’ve waited to take decisive action towards your wish fulfillment because you’re worried what other people will think, it’s possible you’ll reach a point where you decide, “to heck with it, I don’t care… I’m going after what I want”.
What do you need to know right now?
You have the strength and courage to do this (in this situation, “this” appears to be a divorce or some sort of legal process surrounding the dissolution of a relationship.)
You might also be needing strength to maintain patience right now, because you might be feeling a sense of impatience for how long the legal process will take. If this is how you’re feeling, it’s possible that the person you’re leaving (divorcing) might be digging their heels in a bit, being stubborn, or perhaps even acting in an immature way (this came out directly in the cards—not my personal take), potentially because they don’t want to start over. Almost an energy of, “I’m not doing that… you can try to divorce me, but I’m not going to allow it.”
What do you need to do right now?
Stand your ground and tell it like it is.
Be decisive and don’t waiver from your heart’s truth.
If you haven’t yet taken action on this decision yet, you’re being guided to do so ASAP. This was a loud message here. “Push for the truth and stand firm.”
What’s the most soothing wisdom you can hear right now?
You know exactly what you need to do, and your intuition is spot on about this situation / where you’re heading.
Your intuition is awakening through this process, and you can trust it more than you realize.If you’re judging yourself for your truth, you’re being guided to know that there’s nothing to judge about your truth and there’s nothing to feel guilty about here.
“You’re forgiven.” (This came through my intuition as a direct message to someone.)It’s time to free yourself of judgment from beliefs that no longer resonate with your heart.
You’re finding a new perspective on beliefs of the past that have limited you and made you feel judged. This is allowing you to step into your intuition with more clarity and power than ever before.
You’re in the process of surrendering to the path of your heart (divine surrender). This feeling of, ‘I trust that where my heart is leading is where I’ve always been intended to go.’
Where are you headed?
You’re finding balance and harmony in your life.
You might be revealing a “hidden truth” to someone or gaining clarity about your emotions.If you’re hiding your sadness, you’re being guided to reach out to someone you trust.
You’re headed towards victory and success with whatever or whomever your heart is guiding you towards at this time.
Summary of guidance
When it comes to your heart’s guidance (intuition), you’re being guided to “feel the fear and do it anyway”.
Supportive questions to ask yourself: “Without the presence of doubt, worry, or skepticism… what would life look like?” What actions would you take?
As much as you can, tune out the “noise” and opinions of others when it comes to how you navigate this process. Stay true to yourself and choose yourself in a self-compassionate way.
If you’re moving through a divorce and wanting the process to be as quick and as amicable as possible (especially if children are involved), consider using a joint mediator (as opposed to two separate attorneys). Joint legal mediation is typically quicker, less expensive, and less stressful / emotionally taxing for everyone involved.
No matter where you are action wise in this process with leaving a past relationship, your energy is very much done with it. You’re being guided to put down the heaviness of the past and end this relationship (or to be firm in standing your ground that it’s done).
If you’re experiencing sadness, hopelessness, and/or despair, please reach out to someone you trust.
Allow yourself to surprise yourself with your your authenticity and your confidence.
Shine your light bravely and boldly, and “respect your greatness”—you’re meant to be seen.
Free yourself from the heaviness of feelings of guilt or shame. Shame specifically is dissolved and softened by vulnerably acknowledging it, and it may be beneficial to share your story with someone you trust.
Resources + Links
Podcast episodes
Speaking from the Heart on Heartbreak
Returning to Wholeheartedness Through the Portal of Heartbreak
How to Make + Navigate Life-Changing Decisions
Book
Conscious Uncoupling by Katherine Woodward Thomas
Blog post
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Disclaimer: This reading is intended for entertainment and inspirational purposes only and does not substitute individual psychological advice or counsel.