Ashley Melillo

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It’s time to forgive yourself, free yourself from the heaviness of the past, and step into your happiness


Reading format: For whoever most needs to hear it—situation check-in.

Ego vs. Higher Self perspective on a situation that involves closing up a past chapter that now feels heavy and freeing yourself to step into your happiness.

Themes

  • Transformation and change—in between two worlds/relationships energy.

  • Balancing past and future energies in the present moment.

  • Your head (ego) is nearly on the same page as your heart (Higher Self) at this point, it’s just in a more anxious and worried state than your Higher Self (the HS doesn’t worry) and might be approaching the situation in an overly logical way.

  • Your Higher Self is guiding you to be more in your heart and less in your head. Your heart is guiding you to be happy and optimistic about where you’re headed (as opposed to feeling anxious and worried). “Can you let yourself play in the energy of where you’re being led?”

  • Your mind (ego)seems to be mostly guiding you in the same direction as your Higher Self but is overthinking the path and approaching it in a way that’s too logical (too logical, because it’s causing you to worry and stall out).

  • Your Higher Self has some strong feelings about where you’re stuck right now (the energy of the past feels heavy and draining and is likely wearing you out, and you’re being guided to open up to the future).

  • Your ego might be taking an overly diplomatic approach here. If this is the case, you might be feeling as if taking action towards the future is too confusing or too fast.

  • Your Higher Self is guiding you to step into the expansive energy of the future and to balance it with the chapter you’re closing up behind you. At the very least, you’re being guided to be more gentle with yourself right now and to release self-judgment.

  • Your Soul wants you to know that the heaviness of your past is meant to be released right now—you’re being guided to put down the burdens of shame, guilt, and fear and to forgive yourself.

  • You're a healer (it’s very possible you don’t know this yet), and the details that came through about your mission/purpose brought me to tears during the reading.

  • Your head seems to be on board with your heart’s guidance, it’s just more logical and fearful (and likely shaming/judging too) about it. Being overly logical here could be keeping you “frozen” in place in terms of action (even if internally you’ve already decided). Your heart is guiding you to find more flow, freedom, happiness, self-compassion, and self-forgiveness in this process.

Summary of guidance

  • You’re being guided to take move forward, take action, stand your ground, and step into your Emperor energy.

  • Speak your truth (even though it scares your mind).

  • Higher Self’s healing guidance: Step into your power and walk away / initiate a divorce or legal action (or if you’ve already done this, then you’re being guided to bring balance to your life by also allowing in the optimistic energy of the next chapter, too). Your Higher Self is guiding you close out the past chapter and to give yourself permission to open to the new one so that you can begin to heal.

  • Step into your power and know that what you’re moving through is part of your destiny and is tied to your spiritual mission. You’re being guided to heal and release any shame—you’re a good person (far better than good actually), and you’re a beautiful soul. Any shame or guilt you’re experiencing doesn’t belong to you but rather was projected onto you from outside sources, belief systems, etc.


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Disclaimer: This reading is intended for entertainment and inspirational purposes only and does not substitute individual psychological advice or counsel.